Breckenridge Sunrise Engagement

Breckenridge Sunrise Engagement

Mallory and Sean came to me through a client referral but from our first phone call and Zoom chats, I instantly felt like I’d known them for years. They live in St. Louis, MI, but are holding their wedding in Beaver Creek, Colorado, in September 2024. Mallory’s grandmother has a home there, and it’s a special place for her family.

Sean and Mallory were warriors and braved an early morning wakeup on Labor Day weekend to meet me at 6:15am at Officer’s Gulch, between Frisco and Breckenridge. Nothing beats magic hour photos (the hour after sunrise and the hour before sunset), especially in the mountains!

Little did I know that the morning before Mallory and Sean’s engagement shoot, my boyfriend, now fiancé, would propose the day prior. With that, when I introduced Mallory and Sean to my fiancé, they were over the moon to hear about how he proposed and our love story. That is the type of people Mallory and Sean are—they only recently met me and hardly knew Mitch, yet they couldn’t wait to hear about our love and love story. They are such loving, generous, sweet people! I can’t wait to photograph their wedding next year and celebrate their love!

What to Wear: Engagement Photos in Colorado

What to Wear: Engagement Photos in Colorado

After selecting a location, date, and time (ideally the hour after sunrise or the hour before sunset), the number one thing I’m asked is what to wear for engagement photos. In particular, brides-to-be tend to stress over their clothing and shoes as outfits that may look fabulous in real life, don’t always photograph well, or don’t allow for ease of movement that is best for photos. By following the tips below, your can show up for your photo session completely at ease and focus on laughing and smooching your love in a gorgeous setting, versus fixing a strap that keeps falling down or tripping in your shoes. The session should be fun and stress-free so I’m here to help ensure that your outfit photographs beautifully and so couples feel comfortable physically and therefore can stay present and happy without a care in the world!

To prepare my clients, I’ve been sharing the tips below to help them plan their outfits and sessions.

How to Prepare for Engagement Photos:

Coordinate Outfits

The day of wearing perfectly matching outfits is long past but choosing outfits that complement one another is crucial. A fool-proof place to start is opting for different neutral colors (grey, ivory, beige, brown, blush) and then add in one or two elements of color, such as yellow, red, pink, purple, or blue. Depending on the time of year, Colorado landscapes can either be full of yellow aspens, gorgeous fluffy white snow, or in in the case of this rainy year, lush green and filled with wildflowers; with that in mind, it’s best to opt for colors that will show contrast with those backgrounds. Instead of a bright fire engine red, try a light dusty burnt orange or rose instead of neon pink—these will complement the landscape without detracting from the gorgeous setting. I love floral prints in the summer and often recommend simple, subtle florals that abide by these color recommendations. For heterosexual couples, it’s usually best to start with the woman’s outfit and plan around that. For same-sex couples, the same rule applies where it’s best to choose one outfit and then match to that.

Solids vs. Prints

I tend to recommend solid colors that stand the test of time; they also help you “pop” from the background and not blend into it. If you adore prints, it’s best if one person wears a print and the other wears solids to avoid pattern clashing and an overly busy look to the photos. To add depth and interest to solids, choose scarfs, cardigans, jewelry, and accessories such as a cinch waist belt, and think about fabrics such as lace, crochet, cotton-gauze, slub, chunky woven knits, wool, and velvet.

If you opt for a print, make sure that the print looks nice against your love’s clothing. Avoid small prints such as small checkered shirts or small stripes, and opt for larger prints such as gingham, floral, large flanel, and polka dot.


What to Wear (& not wear) for Men

Choose a shirt that is meant to be worn un-tucked and opt for layers. Think about the materials and that they are breathable and easy to move in. Button-down or polo tops with slim-fit jeans or chino pants (avoid baggy fit) are always a winning combination. For Fall and winter, think blazers, button-down shirts with rolled-up sleeves, sweaters over collared shirts, chunky knits, and compliment with slim-fit jeans or chino pants (avoid baggy fit). Leather shoes, boots, and boat shoes all look great—please avoid athletic shoes. For summer, a long sleeve button down shirt with the cuffs rolled is a timeless look that is always a winner.

What to Wear (& not wear) for Women

For spring and summer, wearing fitted tops tucked into long skirts, a-line dresses or coats, flowy or fitted tunics with skinny pants, and maxi and midi dresses are always flattering. Blazers and cardigans help accentuate shoulders and smaller waists, creating a nice hourglass shape. Scarves can add a fun pop of color. Ankel boots, riding boots, and wedges are typically easy to move around in and photograph beautifully. Avoid sleeveless and strapless tops or dresses unless you LOVE your arms.

Finding the balance between not too fitted and not too baggy is key. Make sure your clothing is properly fitted, not too revealing, and flatters your shape. Think about balancing your top half and lower half and what your favorite features are. For example, if you are a pear shape such as myself, think slimmer fit on top and a-line or flowy on the bottom. Wearing a belt to accentuate small waists or to create a waist adds balance and is always flattering. If you want to show off your legs, think skinny pants and a full top. Don’t wear blousy/full on top and bottom—only choose one. O and please leave large handbags and other burdensome accessories at home!

What to Avoid

Wearing all dark colors such as brown, black or dark navy should all be avoided. Brown pants or skirt with a floral top is great but all brown can blend too much into mountain background. Muted colors work much better than saturated so instead of bright neon green, think seafoam green. Don’t wear clothing with logos or text—they detract attention from your faces. Pick outfits and colors that you will enjoy having framed in your house year-round. Please also avoid transition lenses and if you do wear glasses, clean them before the session. Also, avoid low necklines, visible bra straps, and short skirts or dresses that would need to be regularly adjusted. Remember, if you can see your undergarments under your clothes, the camera will see them too.

Comfort & Ease of Movement

Choose clothing that you feel fabulous in that gives you freedom of movement, is comfortable, and won’t require maintenance throughout your session. You should be able to sit, twist, walk, and raise your arms comfortably—you want to be able to move easily!  You don’t want to be fixing your clothes when you’re supposed to be looking and feeling carefree. If your session is in the mountains, make sure your shoes will allow you to stand on rocks and bring a pair of sneakers or hiking shoes to slip on and off as needed.

Plan for the Weather

Don’t forget to incorporate rain boots, umbrellas, sunglasses, and cardigans into your outfit planning and plan for layers that can easily be taken off in case the temperatures drop. When planning your layers, make sure your outer layers are part of your outfit and coordinate with your underlayers. I recommend planning both warm weather and cold weather selections for your session. There can be unexpectedly cool days and sweltering hot days. It will be one less thing to worry about if you are covered for either type of weather.

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Lakefront Wedding Reception for Denver Couple

Lakefront Wedding Reception for Denver Couple

Jessica and Dan’s intimate wedding reception was elegant yet casual and full of love and laughter. Jessica and Dan met once they moved to Denver from Chicago and New York. I was thrilled to travel to gorgeous Saugatuck, Michigan, where Dan’s family has a family summer home. Saugatuck looks like it’s straight out of New England. Beautiful lakefront homes and lush gardens everywhere. The morning started overcast and rainy, but amazingly, the weather cleared up and greeted us with a gorgeous golden hour and beautiful sunset. The waterfront was stunning, as was capturing these beautiful souls’ love. They had their intimate ceremony in Denver, with just the two of them and I was thrilled to document their family reception to celebrate their love.

I’ve always been drawn to flowers and love incorporating nature and flowers into my wedding and event photography. I started dabbling in floral arranging while quarantining in 2020, and I was beyond thrilled and honored that the couple entrusted me to create the tablescapes and floral arrangements for their wedding. It was an absolute blast making the arrangements the morning of the wedding, setting up the venue, and then photographing it. For micro weddings and elopements, it’s wonderful to work so closely with couples and to simplify the planning by essentially being the only vendor besides venue, catering, and bakery.

Wash Park Wast Fall Family Photos

Wash Park West was the first neighborhood I lived in upon moving to Denver and I immediately fell in love with the gorgeous homes and more importantly the fabulous gardens! So many incredible dessert gardens, xeriscaping, and interesting details. I love the richness of the neighborhood and of course, Washington Park! When I first moved here in June 2021, I walked to the park nearly every day and still go as often as possible. I’ve scoured every inch and love finding the special gems for photo locations. This magic hour session is by far one of my favorite spots in the park. How fabulous is the amaranth (long flowy red flowers)?! I seriously cannot stop gushing over the sweetness of this adorable family. After receiving multiple hugs from the younger girl and approx five “thank you Miss Rachael!” from both daughters, I felt all the warm and fuzzies. Aren’t they adorable?

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7 Days to 6 Years: Capturing Children's Growth and Family Bonds

I’ve received several messages over the years from my clients sharing stories of loved family members and how meaningful a specific image or gallery featuring that loved one is. One of my favorite stories is about a bride’s grandmother (in her 90s) who didn’t smile in photographs for nearly her whole life. This changed after seeing the candid (smiling) photos I captured of her dancing with her granddaughter (the bride) and she began smiling in photos and loved how she looked. Heartbreakingly I’ve also received several messages telling me how special a photograph I took of a parent or grandparent, who passed away, and how treasured the photos are. Hearing stories like these and the bond I form with my clients over the years is why I LOVE being a family and wedding photographer. It is incredibly meaningful to capture those moments, knowing they will be treasured for generations to come.

The two families featured here are particularly special. Janet, Dom, and Emerald are the sweetest trio! Janet and I met when I photographed a Mommy & Me Yoga Class in 2017. Janet loved the photos I captured of her daughter Emerald, then six months old, and hired me to photograph Emerald’s first birthday party and family portraits. I now have been taking their family photos every year. We recently had a blast dancing and enjoying spring flowers for Emerald’s sixth birthday and I loved seeing what a chatterbox with such a BIG personality she’s become. Janet’s mom joined us for Emerald’s second birthday session (below). Sadly she passed away last year. Emerald and I spoke about how special her grandmother was and I know they treasure the gallery with her loving presence.

Also shown here is The Tang Family! This family has become extremely close friends—our friendship blossomed from Keira’s first birthday shoot since we (Keira, then just one) immediately bonded. I fell in love with Keira and then became fast friends with her fabulous parents over time. I’m now “Aunt Rachael” to Keira and her sweet little brother Quinn—who I often refer to as Quinny. Prepare for cuteness overload!

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Emerald’s 1st Birthday through 6th (4th was skipped due to COVID19)

The Tang Family, starting with Keira at 1 and Quinn at 7 days old

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How to Prepare for Fall Family Photos
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It is no secret that I LOVE the fall! I started making pumpkin pie breakfast smoothies the day after Labor Day and drinking pumpkin spice coffee for weeks. As a lifestyle photographer, I look forward to fall family photo sessions all year! Fall foliage adds gorgeous color and textures to images; plus, is there anything more fun than playing in leaves or going apple picking, or taking part in other autumnal activities with little pumpkins (children)? NOPE, there isn’t!

To prepare for your photo session, check out my tips below and don’t miss out on the list of my favorite pumpkin recipes (below the tips) because I love sharing pumpkin goodness!

Contact me to inquire about my fall session availability!

Top Ten Tips to Prepare for Fall Family Photos:

1. Coorindate Outfits

The day of wearing matching outfits is long past but choosing outfits that complement one another is crucial. A fool-proof place to start is opting for different neutral colors (grey, ivory, beige, brown, blush) and then add in one or two elements of color, such as orange, blue, or red. It can be helpful to start with one family member’s outfit and plan accordingly. Perhaps your child has a favorite outfit that both of you love, and they will be excited to wear—plan around that. Don’t force your child to wear something they won’t be comfortable in or don’t like—get their buy-in, so we have happy children!

2. Solids vs. Prints

I tend to recommend solid colors that stand the test of time; they also help you “pop” from the background and not blend into it. If you adore prints, it’s best if one or two people wear a print and the others wear solids to avoid pattern clashing and an overly-busy look to the photos. To add depth and interest to solids, choose chunky knits and think about fabrics such as lace, velvet, tweed, herringbone, faux fur, etc.

If you prefer prints, make sure that the prints look nicely against all the group's clothing. Avoid small prints such as small checkered shirts or small stripes, and opt for larger prints.

This family opted for stripes (for both momma and their little sailor) and made it work beautifully by sticking with neutral grey, beige, and navy and keeping everything else simple and well-coordinated. How adorable are those pirate shoes?!

3. Color Palettes

The most important thing while choosing a color scheme is to choose colors that are flattering to the group’s skin tones. Some favorite fall wardrobe colors (to mix with neutrals) are burgundy, berry, burnt orange, mustard yellow, sage, forest green, slate blue, and grey. Mixing neutrals with soft colors such as light pink, blush, or light blue or opting for warm colors like orange, burgundy, and mustard yellow complements foliage beautifully.

Take a look at these families with light pink/beige/navy and eggplant/mustard yellow/burgundy below. Both created gorgeous palettes!  

4. Comfort & Ease of Movement

Choose clothing that you feel fabulous in that gives you freedom of movement, is comfortable, and won’t require maintenance throughout your session. You should be able to sit, twist, squat, walk, and raise your arms comfortably—you want to be able to play in the leaves and move around!  You don’t want to be fixing your clothes when you’re supposed to be looking and feeling carefree.

I’ve had the pleasure of photographing the family below for the last five years, and we jump, squat, and play in the leaves. The mom usually opts for stretchy fitted pants tucked into boots that allow her to play and move easily.

5. Plan for the Weather

Don’t forget to incorporate coats, hats, scarves, and gloves into your outfit planning and dress in layers that can easily be taken off if you get too hot. When planning your layers, make sure your outer layers are part of your outfit and coordinate with your underlayers. I recommend planning both warm weather and cold weather selections for your session. There are unexpectedly cool days (especially when we shoot early in the morning or late in the afternoon) and surprisingly warm days. It will be one less thing to worry about if you are covered for either type of weather.

6. Avoid the Following

Bright white, dark colors such as brown, black or dark navy should all be avoided. Muted colors work much better than saturated so instead of bright red, think burgundy. Don’t wear clothing with logos or text—they detract attention from your faces. I also recommend avoiding holiday colors even if you plan on using these photos for holiday cards. Instead, pick outfits and colors that you will enjoy having framed in your house year-round. Please also avoid transition lenses and if you do wear glasses, clean them before the session. Also, avoid low necklines, visible bra straps, and short skirts or dresses that would need to be regularly adjusted.

7. What to Wear (& not to wear) for Women

Wearing fitted tops tucked into long skirts, a-line dresses or coats, flowy or fitted tunics with skinny pants, and maxi and midi dresses are always flattering. Blazers and cardigans help accentuate shoulders and smaller waists, creating a nice hourglass shape. Scarves can add a fun pop of color. Ankle boots and riding boots are easy to move around in and photograph beautifully. Avoid sleeveless tops or dresses unless you LOVE your arms.

Finding the balance between not too-fitted and not too baggy is key. Make sure your clothing is properly fitted, not too revealing, and flatters your shape. Think about balancing your top half and lower half and what your favorite features are. For example, if you are a pear shape such as myself, think slimmer fit on top and a-line or flowy on the bottom. Wearing a belt to accentuate small waists or to create a waist adds balance and is always flattering. If you want to show off your legs, think skinny pants and a full top. Don’t wear blousy/full on top and bottom—only choose one.

8. What to Wear (& not to wear) for Men

Choose a shirt that is meant to be worn un-tucked and opt for layers. Think blazers, cardigans, button-down shirts with rolled-up sleeves, sweaters over collared shirts, chunky knits, and compliment with slim-fit jeans or chino pants (avoid baggy fit). Leather shoes, boots, and boat shoes all look great—please avoid athletic shoes.

 9. What to Bring & Leave at Home

Leave large handbags, fanny packs, and other burdensome accessories at home.  If you need a stroller or diaper bag, please pack compactly so we can easily leave it out of the shot as we move around.

Does your child have a special toy from a grandparent that they love playing with? A book that makes them smile? Bring it! My 10-month-old nephew smiles and claps the second anyone says “Chicka Chicka Boom Boom”—share those tidbits with your photographer so they can get the best smiles of your little ones!

10. Plan Around Your Child’s Schedule

The hour after sunrise and the hour before sunset is known as “Magic Hour” or “Golden Hour” and often graces us with gorgeous lighting. However, beautiful lighting does not make a child who is missing his or her nap time happy. When choosing the time of day for your session, plan around napping and eating schedules or any “afternoon meltdown” times to ensure your child will be happy and playful. If that time corresponds with Magic Hour—great, but a happy child takes priority over lighting. Golden lighting can be added to the images afterward, thanks to editing.


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And lastly, my favorite pumpkin recipes—please let me know if you try any!

The healthy stuff:

Gluten-free Pumpkin Oat Muffins

Pumpkin Lentil Soup

Pumpkin Breakfast Cookie

The semi-healthy:

Penne with Pumpkin Sauce

Paleo Pumpkin Pie

The indulgent (and totally worth it):

Dark Chocolate Pumpkin Tart—this is seriously one of the best things I’ve ever baked!

Moving to the Mile High City + Special Promotion for Denver Families!
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Rachael Elana Photography

in Denver, Colorado!

Colorado has completely captured my heart during the few months I spent in Denver earlier this summer and I’m thrilled to announce that I’ve officially made the Mile High City my permanent home! Between the “quaking” Aspen trees, abundant gardens and parks, easy access to the mountains, and the healthy, active lifestyle, this New Yorker of 13 years has learned to relax and slow down. I’ve been itching to be near the mountains and be surrounded by nature for many years but my amazing clients whom I’ve photographed year after year, made me feel rooted in NYC. 2020 changed all that and while NYC will always feel like one of my homes, I’m over the moon to be photographing families, couples, and celebrations of all kinds in Denver, Boulder, and the surrounding areas. NYC clients—worry not, I will still visit XO!

I’m eager to bring my seven+ years of experience as a Lifestyle Photographer capturing the playful and intimate emotions among families and couples (weddings, elopements, engagements, proposals, anniversary celebrations—I do it all!) in addition to portraits, headshots, events, and branding/marketing images to new families and individuals in Denver! In honor of my move, I’m offering 20% off all Denver-area family photo sessions with the code “Denver” for sessions scheduled through November 7th.

Learn more about my Fall Family Photo sessions here and contact me to schedule a session! Book me for a sunrise mountain elopement, a Sunday afternoon in Washington Park, portraits with RiNo’s street art, or wandering around LoHi! I can’t wait to meet you!

*I’m vaccinated for COVID-19 and remain masked during all photo sessions to keep you and your loved ones safe and healthy.*

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As a Denver newbie, I wanted to share some of my favorite spots (below). What are your favorites? Comment to share!

My favorite Denver spots:

The Denver Botanical Gardens are absolutely spectacular!

Washington Park The gardens within the park are gorgeous and it has a wonderful walking, biking, and running path. Tennis courts and boating too! It's my oasis.

Uncle has delicious vegan ramen and eggplant bao buns! They also offer reservations for outdoor seating which I greatly appreciate.

Fierce 45 has a wonderful new client special for two weeks of unlimited classes for $25. I love the HIIT-Pilates classes and look forward to my classes every week.

Pearl Street Farmers Market Come hungry and with lots of reusable totes! Incredible Market!

The Perfect Petal has the most incredible boutique in the historic Highlands neighborhood AND is an increcible florist.

Lekker Coffee & Watering Hole I took a wonderful flower arranging workshop at this adorable cafe with Black + Blossomed and loved it. Fabulous coffee, and a perfect space to work remotely.

Tacos Tequila Whiskey Don't let the lame name fool you, the food is delicious!

Summer Family Photo Outfit Guide
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Summer Family Photo

Outfit Guide

Summer in Denver is magical. The long, sunny, humid-free days and abundant wildflowers completely stole my heart when I first came to the “Centennial State” from NYC. Summer days with children are full of gorgeous textures to photograph like ice cream smushed over cheeks and chins, blowing bubbles, splashing around in a pool, and gathering ALL the flowers. I look forward to summer family photo sessions all year!

To prepare my clients, I’ve been sharing the tips below to help them plan their outfits and sessions.

Contact me to book a session! Looking ahead to fall? Currently booking fall sessions as well!

**As a bonus, I also shared my favorite summer recipes at the bottom! Let me know what you try!

How to Prepare for Summer Family Photos:

1. Coorindate Outfits

The day of wearing perfectly matching outfits is long past but choosing outfits that complement one another is crucial. A fool-proof place to start is opting for different neutral colors (grey, ivory, beige, brown, blush) and then add in one or two elements of color, such as yellow, red, pink, purple, or blue. Summer landscapes are lush and colorful so opt for muted colors. Instead of a bright fire engine red, try a light dusty burnt orange or rose instead of neon pink. I love floral prints in the summer and often recommend simple, subtle florals that abide by these color recommendations. It can be helpful to start with one family member’s outfit, such as mom(s) or dad(s), and plan accordingly. Perhaps your child has a favorite outfit that both of you love, and they will be excited to wear—plan around that. Don’t force your child to wear something they won’t be comfortable in or don’t like—get their buy-in, so we have happy children!

2. Solids vs. Prints

I tend to recommend solid colors that stand the test of time; they also help you “pop” from the background and not blend into it. My one exception for the summer is floral prints—subtle, simple floral prints photograph beautifully as long as they aren’t too busy. If you adore prints, it’s best if one or two people wear a print and the others wear solids to avoid pattern clashing and an overly busy look to the photos. To add depth and interest to solids, choose shawls, cardigans, jewelry, accessories such as a cinch waist belt, hats, and think about fabrics such as linen, lace, crochet, cotton-gauze, eyelet, seersucker, chambray, and slub.

If you prefer prints, make sure that the prints look nicely against all the group's clothing. Avoid small prints such as small checkered shirts or small stripes, and opt for larger prints such as gingham, floral, and polkadot.

3. Comfort & Ease of Movement

Choose clothing that you feel fabulous in that gives you freedom of movement, is comfortable, and won’t require maintenance throughout your session. You should be able to sit, twist, squat, walk, and raise your arms comfortably—you want to be able to play and move easily!  You don’t want to be fixing your clothes when you’re supposed to be looking and feeling carefree.

4. Plan for the Weather

Don’t forget to incorporate rain boots, umbrellas, sunglasses, and cardigans into your outfit planning and plan for layers that can easily be taken off in case the temperatures drop. When planning your layers, make sure your outer layers are part of your outfit and coordinate with your underlayers. I recommend planning both warm weather and cold weather selections for your session. There can be unexpectedly cool days and sweltering hot days. It will be one less thing to worry about if you are covered for either type of weather.

5. What to Avoid

Bright white, dark colors such as brown, black or dark navy should all be avoided. Muted colors work much better than saturated so instead of bright neon green, think seafoam green. Don’t wear clothing with logos or text—they detract attention from your faces. Pick outfits and colors that you will enjoy having framed in your house year-round. Please also avoid transition lenses and if you do wear glasses, clean them before the session. Also, avoid low necklines, visible bra straps, and short skirts or dresses that would need to be regularly adjusted.

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6. What to Wear (& not wear) for Women

Wearing fitted tops tucked into long skirts, a-line dresses or coats, flowy or fitted tunics with skinny pants, and maxi and midi dresses are always flattering. Blazers and cardigans help accentuate shoulders and smaller waists, creating a nice hourglass shape. Scarves can add a fun pop of color. Wedges are typically easy to move around in and photograph beautifully. Avoid sleeveless tops or dresses unless you LOVE your arms.

Finding the balance between not too-fitted and not too baggy is key. Make sure your clothing is properly fitted, not too revealing, and flatters your shape. Think about balancing your top half and lower half and what your favorite features are. For example, if you are a pear shape such as myself, think slimmer fit on top and a-line or flowy on the bottom. Wearing a belt to accentuate small waists or to create a waist adds balance and is always flattering. If you want to show off your legs, think skinny pants and a full top. Don’t wear blousy/full on top and bottom—only choose one.

7. What to Wear (& not wear) for Men

Choose a shirt that is meant to be worn un-tucked and opt for layers. Think about the materials and that they are breathable and easy to move in. Button-down or polo tops with slim-fit jeans or chino pants (avoid baggy fit) are always a winning combination. Leather shoes and boat shoes all look great—please avoid athletic shoes.

 8. What to Bring & Leave at Home

Leave large handbags, fanny packs, and other burdensome accessories at home.  If you need a stroller or diaper bag, please pack compactly so we can easily leave it out of the shot as we move around.

Does your child have a special toy from a grandparent that they love playing with? A book that makes them smile?

Other fun ideas? Bubbles, running through sprinklers, fresh flowers, watermelon, ice cream, outdoor baths. The summer offers endless activities that make for authentic fun photos!

9. Plan Around Your Child’s Schedule

The hour after sunrise and the hour before sunset is known as “Magic Hour” or “Golden Hour” and often graces us with gorgeous lighting. However, beautiful lighting does not make a child who is missing his or her nap time happy. When choosing the time of day for your session, plan around napping and eating schedules or any “afternoon meltdown” times to ensure your child will be happy and playful. If that time corresponds with Magic Hour—great, but a happy child takes priority over lighting. Golden lighting can be added to the images afterward, thanks to editing.

“Badass Bosslady” Headshots, Representation & Conversation on DEI with EFCG’s Jessica Barclay
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One of my favorite podcasts and online communities is “Bossed Up,” where the founder and host, Emilie Aries, signs off every episode with “lifting as we climb,” the motto of the first black women’s club, the National Association of Colored Women (NACW). Since becoming an active member of the Bossed Up Courage Community, I have participated in and listened to several discussions involving workplace challenges specific to women, mental health, DEI, representation, and more. These conversations and others I’ve had with the incredible women in my life inspire this post; most notably, my conversation with Jessica Zofnass Barclay, Managing Partner at EFCG, below.


While I rarely share my corporate event photos and professional headshots on social media, it is through my corporate work that I have met so many impressive women leaders and executives. Many of these highly-accomplished women (with titles including Ph.D., CEO, Managing Partner, Executive Director, President) did not easily convey confidence at the beginning of their photo sessions. I noticed that tilting their head to the side or popping a hip to make their legs appear longer came as second nature but exuding confidence did not. For this reason, I love photographing women’s headshots because I coach my clients to let their confidence shine and shake off the indoctrinated ideas of how women should present themselves--cute, pretty, sexy, mysterious, etc. Confidence is powerful and, I believe, enhances our beauty. According to Barbara Tannenbaum, Ph.D. CEO of Dynamic Communications and distinguished lecturer at Brown University, “there are all kinds of studies that say looking confident will make people trust us more and will make people think we are more competent” (Aries, Emilie “How to be a Powerful Public Speaker” Audio blog post. Bossed Up. 4 August 2020. Web. 3, March 2021). After a few clients relayed how “badass” their session and photos made them feel, they became known as “badass bosslady headshots.”

Below are some of the fabulous women whose headshots I’ve had the pleasure of photographing. To prepare for your next headshot, download my free women’s headshot prep guide here.

The horrific and continued violence against all peoples of color in 2020 and the drastic uptick in hate crimes against the Asian American Pacific Islander community have brought conversations surrounding DEI and representation to the forefront in many circles. I have taken this time to listen, read, watch, and continue to learn.  As a woman with white skin, it wasn’t until I watched Brayden Harrington speak at the 2020 Democratic National Convention and bravely stutter on national television that I felt first-hand, the immense power of seeing (or hearing) yourself represented. I cried in awe of this 13-year-old’s bravery and for the joy of feeling seen. Due to my ferocious reading, my vocabulary gives me the freedom to chose my diction around the sounds easiest to pronounce to avoid stuttering if I feel like it’s an “off day” where I may have difficulty pronouncing a “d” or “g.” Overall, thanks to having access to my incredible speech pathologist, Mildred DiTusa, whom I called “my mom at school,” and my loving, supportive parents, I’ve controlled and managed my stutter 98% since childhood. Yet, I never heard anyone stutter in the media, on TV, in film, and I didn’t know anyone else who did. It was not until watching Brayden speak that I realized how impactful it would have been as a child to know others faced the same challenges and sometimes sounded like me--that I wasn’t alone. 

Representation is powerful--it matters. It inspires, heals, lifts. It is VITAL.

The women-owned L&G Research & Evaluation Consulting firm takes immense pride in having a diverse staff and hired me to take branding images for their website in addition to headshots. DEI isn’t a side conversation--it is the core of their company culture. It was wonderful to meet and photograph this impressive and friendly group! Below are a few from this fabulous group:

Back when live events were possible, I had the privilege of photographing conferences for the Environmental Financial Consulting Group (EFCG), run by three women managing partners. While documenting their conferences, consisting of breakout sessions, panel discussions, keynote speakers, networking breaks, and more, I was wowed by the three managing partners: Julie Hasiba, Jessica Zofnass Barclay, and Rebecca Zofnass, all 30-something women, who led the conferences as the leading experts speaking to audiences consisting primarily of men ages 50+. I noticed that their panels and speakers consistently featured diverse industry leaders despite the fields of focus not being known for diversity. It is clear that EFCG makes representation and DEI top priorities. I recently had a wonderful conversation with Jessica where we discussed her experience working in the male-dominated finance industry, the responsibility employers have to DEI, and our hopes for the future. Read more of our conversation below:

Rachael: Before becoming a partner at EFCG, did you come across many female executives in your field?

Jessica: Goldman Sachs’ senior leadership when I was there was mostly men, but there were several women in middle management roles whom I really respected and admired. J.P. Morgan had some very powerful women in senior leadership, including Kelly Coffey and Mary Erdos. I didn’t know them well but seeing their success was critical to my realizing, “yeah, I can do that.” I never had the pleasure of working with a woman as my boss, but I did have amazing, impressive, and intelligent women as my colleagues--they inspired me every day. Now that I’m in a leadership role, I actively work to empower other women at EFCG and to provide a platform to showcase our female clients’ expertise in a still very male-dominated industry. 

R: What is it like speaking as an expert resource, especially at conferences, to a predominantly male audience? I would find that fairly intimidating, but you show no fear. How does it feel?

J: A lot of nerves and a lot of preparation. As younger women, we have to be ten times more prepared than men. Our focus is on research and analytics and our conference content is entirely driven by insights and data. I remind myself that we have an expertise that our clients don’t and that I offer a unique perspective and valuable insight that our clients pay a lot to learn from. 

R: EFCG is deliberate in having diverse panels and speakers in a field that is dominated by white men. Is it challenging at times to find diverse speakers, given the lack of diversity in the field? 

J: Incredibly challenging. We recently hired a new M&A analyst and we posted at Harvard, Kellogg, Northwestern, Indeed, and LinkedIn.  We received over 400 applications: 399 men and one woman. Building a diverse team is of the utmost importance to us, so we needed to search for and encourage people who have been under the wing of systemic injustice. The onus is on the hiring manager to go above and beyond and think of other ways to bring qualified diverse candidates into the process. 

R: How do you hope work culture and representation will change when your children begin their careers? 

J: Challenging and shifting biases that come at a very early age is so important. When my sons enter the working world (in 20 years), I want all parents to have the same leave policy so dads can also shoulder the mind-share and responsibility of being a parent. Paternity leave policies will change things positively for everybody. Dads can learn how to be a new parent and be REALLY engaged in their children’s development, enabling both women and men to work and be parents. I hope there is no longer a bias against women in their 20s and 30s thinking we will leave our careers to have babies. Longer maternity leave only keeps women out of the workplace for longer vs. having equal paternity leave would allow for real change. 

R: What are you most proud of what EFCG has accomplished thus far in its commitment to diverse representation and participation?
J: Bringing diversity to our panels and highlighting the impressive work that many leaders have done that may have sometimes flown under the radar. We’ve been working with many of our clients in their focus on DEI, challenging their cognitive biases and helping improve the hiring and retention policies they have in place. I do think it’s working, slowly!

Returning to a Truer Self: Positive Changes from 2020
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Returning to a Truer Self: Positive Changes from 2020

2020 has been a year of heartbreaking loss with centuries of racial injustice, oppression, and violence coming to a head; I could easily make a long list of all the ways 2020 has sucked (as everyone could), but I decided it would be fun and therapeutic to focus on the bright spots of the year and share some of my favorite discoveries and spread some goodness.

I remind myself often that while it’s important to be grateful, it is also important to let myself “feel how I need to feel.” I’ve had plenty of angry and sad moments in 2020 and am not ignoring them, but I’m appreciative of the positive changes from this crazy year and will hold on to them. Before I get into my top five favorite lists for books, recipes, purchases, and films/series, I’m diving into the intangible positive changes in my life:

Reconnecting to my Bookworm Roots

To set the stage for the very brief part of 2020 that wasn’t impacted by COVID (in NYC), I left a job that left me burnt out and sleep-deprived in the middle of February. I had been chugging along at full-speed for years and was beyond exhausted. COVID hit, and while it continues to be all the horrible things we know, I’ve reconnected with a lost part of myself—being a bookworm. For as long as I can remember, I’ve traveled through fantastical, fictional, and real-life places through books. I’ve cried for characters I’ve come to love and have learned invaluable lessons by “living” experiences vastly different from my own through the immense power of novels and non-fiction. I was not consciously aware that something was missing in my life the last few years (apart from adequate sleep), but devouring novels in 2020 has been like reconnecting with a lost lover who understands you completely and fills your life with love.

Food and Fitness

For years I’ve paid for a monthly gym membership in addition to Pilates reformer classes (lifesaver for my back) and would attend boutique fitness classes through Classpass. While I love(d) and miss Pilates and Classpass classes, I’ve learned how easy (and inexpensive) it is to make use of free YouTube classes and low-cost fitness apps and stay in shape. Additionally, I stopped eliminating sugar and carbs from my diet and have learned to embrace a better balance. There’s also something about being in stretchy pants at home 99% of the time that makes the self-induced pressure to get back to my 25-year-old weight that seems a bit silly, and I’m ok with being ten pounds heavier if it means having a healthier relationship with food.

Reevaluating Relationships

As I’ve embraced my early (now mid) 30s and have focused more on the things that truly matter to me, mostly being social change, the environment, maintaining a healthy lifestyle, and art, I have little interest in relationships that were based solely on working in the same industry or bonding over a mutual dislike of online dating. Yet, it was COVID that gave me the final push to walk away from friendships that weren’t serving me. My previous hesitation had been based on not wanting to hurt others and a sense of obligation, but once in-person contact was taken away, I felt free not to pursue keeping in touch with those I didn’t want to. While this may sound harsh, it has been freeing, and I think a healthy part of preserving my energy and focus for what and who are truly important to me.

I also returned to doing photography for fun. I realize this may sound odd, but as a working photographer, sometimes you lose the spark to work on personal projects and shoot just for the fun of it when you’re bogged down with client work, editing, client communications, et al.

The reoccurring theme for my “good stuff” of 2020 has been returning to my original artistic and literary loves and stepping away from burn-out and hustle culture. I also love writing here on my blog and picked up basic floral arranging skills as a new hobby. I hope 2021 is filled with kindness, compassion, hope, and health, and I plan to hold on to these changes. I also hope 2021 doesn’t return to normal—I want a better world than before. As one of my favorite authors, Arundhati Roy (author of the incredible The God of Small Things), wrote, “Historically, pandemics have forced humans to break with the past and imagine their world anew….We can choose to walk through it, dragging the carcasses of our prejudice and hatred, our avarice, our data banks, and dead ideas, our dead rivers and smoky skies behind us. Or we can walk through lightly, with little luggage, ready to imagine another world. And ready to fight for it.”

Now onto my top five lists!

Favorite Books

Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants: My dear friend Ruthie bought me this book and it has been life-changing. Never has a book pushed me to view the world and our relationship with nature in an entirely new way. One of the most powerful and important non-fiction books I've read, possibly ever.

The House of the Spirits: Isabel Allende is one of my favorite authors and this is by far one of her most beautiful novels.

A Gentleman in Moscow: The literary references and character development made my heart happy. Excellent story and couldn't put it down.

The Labyrinth of the Spirits: The fourth and final book in the "Cemetary of Forgotten Books" series by Carlos Ruiz Zafón. I rarely read series but Zafón's is incredible. The first book (The Shadow of the Wind) and the fourth are both incredible but #2 and #3 are worth reading to have the full context.

Paris: The Novel: Edward Rutherfurd is an incredibly gifted storyteller. In "Paris" he brilliantly jumps back and forth between centuries as he tells the history of Paris from the 1260s to 1960s through the experiences of six families.

 

Favorite Purchases

Ajna Yoga Bolster Pillow : I've been praciticing yoga regularly for nine years and credit this foundation for providing me with the tools to understand and value the mind-body connection and prioritze a daily practice to getting through scary, sad, and overwhelming times. Until 2020 hit, I preferred practicing at my neighborhood studios New York Yoga and Five Pillars Yoga and my original home studio, the now closed Sacred Sounds Yoga in Greenwich Village. I rarely practiced at home but now that practicing at home has become my routine, having beautiful, supportive, high-quality and eco-conscious yoga props has become a wonderful addition to my home.

Aaptiv : I cannot praise this app enough! Aaptiv is $100 for the full year and I've gotten in better shape doing their HIIT, strength trainting, and yoga classes than I have working out in gyms. They have sales fairly often and I paid $50 for the full year.

Sweaty Betty Power 7/8 Workout Leggings : These are THE most flattering and amazing feeling workout pants EVER. They aren't see through, they stay in place, the compression feels great with running and cardio, and I love the pocket that perfectly holds my iPhone. I will happily live in these for the rest of my life.

Lodge Dutch Oven : I started making crusty delicious bread, as did many New Yorkers, this spring and loved how simple it was with this Dutch oven. While I would love a Le Creuset one, snagging this on-sale for $60 was a wonderful budget-friendly option. Also, major shoutout to a college friend I haven't seen in almost 13 years who insisted on mailing me yeast after seeing my Facebook post that I couldn't find any near me, thanks Jennifer Dickey, you are THE sweetest!

Tabletop V-Flats : Until NYC shutdown I rarely did product shoots or styled shoots for fun. It's funny to think how eight months later, the majority of my client and personal work has become that this year. I love doing flatlays and creating styled spreads for various publications and brands. I use natural light whenever possible but having v-flats to fill in shadows and bounce light is key. They were used in these photos below.

Favorite Films & Series (these are not new to 2020 but what I watched this year)

Pan's Labyrinth: Pure brilliance and beauty. Not going to say more because it should be watched vs. written about.

A Call to Spy: History is written by men and there are too few stories that are told about women throughout history. I loved this film, based on real women who gave and risked their lives to serve as spies in WWII.

13th: Ava Duvernay is brilliant as always. Difficult to watch but extremely important.

Schitt's Creek: The cast is brilliant and it is laugh-out-loud funny. If you haven't watched it already, GO. It is good for the soul.

Planetarium: Natalie Portman is captivating in this and the story is a bit weird (in a perfect way). Extremely thought provoking and depicts Paris during an interesting time leading up to WWII.

I’d love to hear what changes you made in 2020 that you plan to hold on to. What have you reconnected with or discovered? Feel free to comment below or email me—I’d love to hear from you!

Tips for Choosing the Best Wedding Flowers with Expert Advice from Floral Designer Barbara Mele, Founder of Gatherings Floral Design
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Tips for Choosing the Best Wedding Flowers with Floral Designer Barbara Mele

Barbara Mele, Founder of Gatherings Floral Design, is a self-described “flower lover extraordinaire.”  With close to two decades of experience, Barbara’s team at Gatherings services NYC and the Tri-state area with her incredible floral designs for weddings, events, and occasions of all sizes. In addition to running Gatherings, Barbara has also trained many florists as a former teacher at FlowerSchool of New York.

Barbara created romantic, elegant, and classic table pieces and a bouquet for a micro wedding I photographed at Conrad New York Downtown. As the wedding photographer, I came to know the wedding couple, Anna and Efram, through brunching and talking at length about what they wanted their wedding to be like, and Barbara’s designs reflected their personalities and style perfectly: intimate, sweet, elegant. I was so impressed with Barbara’s talent, kind personality, and dedication to her craft that I identified her as my top-choice NYC florist to feature. 

Barbara and I recently sat down together (virtually) for an interview where she shared excellent guidance for couples planning their wedding, elopement, familial connection to gardens, and her “urban garden” style. Read on!

Rachael: Tell me about your path and how you got to where you are now:

Barbara: I always wanted to be a florist. My grandmother was a landscape architect, and my mom is one of ten siblings; all seven of her sisters are landscape architects, but my mom is the only one who isn’t. I knew I wanted to do something to honor my grandmother—my fondest childhood memories were of being in the garden with her. I would walk into the neighborhood florist shop in high school asking if they needed help, but they would ask if I had experience (which I didn’t), so it was a vicious cycle. I learned to be persistent, and in college, I landed my first job with a European-style florist who preferred to hire people without experience so they could teach everyone “fresh.” I advise anyone interested in being a florist to be willing to sweep the floor, help answer the phone—literally anything to get in, and eventually, you’ll be able to learn more and take on more.  

R: How do you describe your floral style?

B: Urban Garden. I’ve always loved very wild gardens and open fields from childhood, but my whole career has been in Manhattan, so I’ve combined the wild garden feel with the city. I love using wildflowers in a sleek modern vase: a little different, a little unusual. 

R: What advise do you have for couples planning their wedding or elopement? 

B: Try to stick with varieties that will be in season. The flowers will be healthier and stay open for longer—you want them to be at their best. They are also more reasonably priced. As technology and communication has expanded and growing practices have changed and improved, flowers are now available outside of their local season. Peonies are in their peak, locally, in May but are now available in October from South America. You are paying double the cost and it’s a roll of the dice as to how healthy they will be and how long they will last. Let nature take its course and stick to seasonal blooms.

R: How do you guide couples in selecting their wedding flowers?

B: There’s always something that clues the florist in to see what they would like such as a save-the-date, a dress, or the venue. Usually couples don’t talk to a florist as their first vendor. I also ask how they met, what their interests are and get a sense of the wedding venue and setting. I also advise based on seasonality.

R: How do you help couples choose their colors and style?

B: I start with the venue along with the couple’s own preferences. Venues are often dark with mahogany fixtures, or the lighting isn’t great. Using whites and light colors brighten things up. Sometimes couples come in with references from Instagram or Pinterest that are beautiful but would only work in specific spaces or outdoors. It can help see examples of what a couple likes as a starting point if they bring references. My focus is on emulating the couple's feeling and style, and then I line-up the colors to compliment the space, lighting, and any color requests. 

 R: What current trend do you like, and what are you ready to say “goodbye” to?

B: I enjoy tablescapes with bud vases and candles—they have a lot of depth and dimension. Lots of different styles to it, incredibly malleable, which I really like. I’m ready to say “goodbye” to DIY flowers. There is a lot of education online now, which is great, but couples don’t necessarily have to do the whole package DIY if they are on a budget. You could do some but make sure you have the bouquet made by a professional florist. You don’t want wilted flowers in your wedding portraits!

R: What is your favorite part of working with couples planning their wedding?

B: I like meeting with the couples and hearing their love story. Whether they have the vaguest idea of what they want or are very specific, I love bringing a sketch or idea on paper to life.

 

R: Do you have a favorite flower? 

B: That’s an impossible question. I can say the flowers I don’t enjoy working with are poinsettias because when you cut them, they release a white sap and are messy to work with.

Photo by Checo Barragan

Photo by Checo Barragan

 R: How do people find you?

B: Usually, people find me via word of mouth and through venues I’ve worked at. If you’re top of mind with a venue, it is a good way to get business. Through social media as well.

Contact Barbara at info@GatheringsFloralDesign.com or by phone at 212-682-2083. Follow her on Instagram at @gatheringsfloraldesignny and visit her site www.gatheringsfloraldesign.com.

Planning your proposal, engagement, or wedding? Make sure you read Top Tips for Sustainable and Zero-Waste Weddings and my interview with jewelry designer Alice Clarke featuring her Tips for Selecting the Perfect Engagement Ring.

The Joy of Sending (and Receiving) Holiday Cards, Printed Wedding Invitations, and Stationery
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The Joy of Sending

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Receiving) Holiday Cards, Printed Wedding Invitations & Stationery

There is something about physically holding paper that makes stories memorable. Living in small apartments in NYC, I recognize that hoarding books over the years is not a particularly practical choice, and I prefer minimalist design, yet I insist on reading physical copies of books and staying surrounded by them. I love stories, fancy pens, textured paper, calligraphy, typography, and stationery. I keep nearly every card my mom sends me, and I treasure my grandparent’s love letters from World War II (I often include these in my lifestyle work . Naturally, I look forward to sending (and receiving) holiday cards to my friends and family every December.

As a family and wedding photographer, there is no greater joy than receiving photo holiday cards, baby announcements, and other correspondences from my clients featuring my photos. It truly makes my soul warm and fuzzy (cliché, I know, but true)! Seeing how my clients treasure and share their photographs is extremely rewarding and meaningful—it’s one of the many reasons I love doing what I do. When asked for recommendations about where clients and friends should make photo holiday cards, order personalized stationery, or create budget-friendly wedding invitations, baby announcements, etc. I send them to Basic Invite. They offer custom samples, unlimited colors (they have over 180 to choose from!), GORGEOUS foil details, a free address capturing service, and over 40 different colors of envelopes. After throwing my sister a baby shower last October, I can attest to how useful the address capturing service is—it saves a LOT of time! They also offer recipient address printing at no additional cost.

After planning events in NYC for ten years, I enjoy sharing recommendations and event/wedding planning tips with my clients. Basic Invite is a great resource for busy parents looking to print Merry Christmas photo cards, Hanukkah photo cards, New Year’s cards, and is also great for wedding invitations (as styled and photographed here). Their website is easy to use, and customizing designs is simple and quick. It can be hard to know for sure what you will like for wedding invitations, so the fact that you can order custom samples before committing to a full print order is wonderful. Their luxe velvet paper feels incredibly rich and can easily pass for a more expensive supplier. The texture gives invitations a little something extra, and from a photo perspective, the matte finish photographs beautifully. They also have foil detailing available in gold, silver, and rose gold. Another feature for engaged couples is their free wedding websites, which are quick to set up and look great.

Spending so much time at home these days, I find receiving mail (that’s not a bill) VERY exciting—the more baby announcements, New Year’s cards, holiday photo cards, etc. I receive the better, and I’m sure others feel the same! I highly recommend Basic Invite to send some love to the friends and family you haven’t been able to see in-person this year. They also have virtual holiday celebrations available for download to spruce up Zoom celebrations.

As a special perk to my readers, you can save 15% off your order with code “15FF51”.


This post was written in collaboration with Basic Invite, all photographs, words, and opinions are my own.